Need Marriage
Counseling?
Research has shown that the following are
signs of relationship deterioration. When these signs
are present, there is a greatly increased risk of break
up or divorce.
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feeling
distant
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avoiding each other
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increased arguing
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lack of affection
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sarcasm and
hostility |
If one or more of those signs are present in
your marriage, start taking action now!
Whether your relationship is in a crisis or
you have been struggling to get along for a long time, a
professional therapist can be a great source of support, strength
and growth. Having a highly trained and
objective marriage counselor can help you work
through anger or frustration, and find workable solutions. With the
help of marriage counseling you can come out of a
difficult situation feeling more intimate and committed
than ever before.
For most couples, the real problem is not
incompatability, it is a lack of skills such as communication
skills, conflict resolution skills, or intimacy skills. The
good news is that these skills can be taught.
If you are motivated to work on the
relationship, marriage counseling can help you:
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communicate
effectively
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negotiate
differences
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heal and forgive hurts from the
past
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build trust and
safety
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parent effectively as a
team
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create a healthy, fulfilling, and loving
relationship |
Marriage counseling works.
In a study published in the Marriage and
Family Journal (
"Clinical Practice Patterns of Marriage and Family Therapists:
A National Survey of Therapists and Their Clients", Journal of
Marital and Family Therapy--Volume 22, No. 1),
it was reported that , of clients from 526 marriage and family
counselors in 15 different states:
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98.1%
rated services good or excellent
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97.1%
got the kind of help they desired
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91.2%
were satisfied with the amount of help they
received
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93%
said they were helped in dealing more effectively with
problems
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94.3%
would return to the same therapist in the
future
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96.9%
would recommend their therapist to a
friend
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97.4%
were generally satisfied with the service they
received
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63.4%
reported improved physical health
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54.8%
reported improvement in functioning at
work
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73.7%
indicated improvement in children’s
behavior
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58.7% showed improvement in children’s school
performance
Reports from readers on the Internet also support
couples counseling. See comments from Berkely Parents
Network
Don't wait until it is too late to save your
relationship! If you are in our area, take the first
step. Call 729-9965, for
a free phone consultation about your relationship.
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